As They Do It In Our Part of The Globe
Back in November of 2005, The News published a series of articles on the good things about Pakistan that we tend to forget in the midst of our everyday lives. What I have done is reproduced each of the articles so that we can start looking at the reasons to be Proud Pakistanis.
As they do it in our part of the globe
Why would a Pakistani born Canadian and his British born wife and children settle in this country? The reasons are many
Dr. Abid Qaiyum Suleri
We are living in a globalized world. Globalization is not only affecting our day to day life but our families are also becoming more and more global in nature. A typical characteristic of globalized families is that their members are spread all over the world; grandparents in one continent, maternal grandparents in another continent, some of the uncles and aunts in a third one and the rest of them in still other continents. This phenomenon is replacing the traditional concepts of nationalism with new values that are above any geographical ties. These new values are somehow based on principles of human dimensions of globalization — globalization increasing the freedom of choices for human beings. With increasing choices to settle down in more than one country, the decision to settle down somewhere for globalized families is a matter of setting priorities or an issue of political choice.
By my definition, mine is also a globalized family. I am a Pakistani born Canadian, whereas my wife and kids are British born Pakistanis and we have settled down in Pakistan. ‘Why Pakistan when so many people are trying their best to leave this place?’ This is a question that I have to respond to again and again. While I am a strong critic of various odds happening in Pakistan, I also considered some positive aspects of living in Pakistan. As I am going to share some of the positive aspects about Pakistan, let me remind you that my opinion on this particular subject is biased and is valid for my personal circumstances. Readers have every right to agree or disagree with it.
My prime objective of settling down in Pakistan was to look after my ailing mother. On top of it there were some other pull factors for Pakistan. What would determine the identity of our kids was one of the major issues for us. We have seen many expatriate Pakistani families who suddenly decide to return to Pakistan as they want their kids to learn better Urdu, some basic knowhow of religion and to get familiar with their relatives. This was the main pull factor for us as well.
It is not that we lack opportunities of learning any language or religion abroad. Of course a majority of the families of Pakistani origin settled abroad speak their mother tongue as fluently and are as religious as someone living in Pakistan. However, it is the sense of inclusion that matters.
If I have to talk of ten positive things about Pakistan, my first take would be the sense of inclusion that people of Pakistani origin (or at least I) feel here. I am a strong advocate of intercultural integration and intercultural harmony. However, I do feel that my kids need to experience the sense of inclusion in order to enjoy the cultural diversity abroad. They need to know what it is being South Asian to take pride (and not to get defensive) when they would be labelled as ‘South Asians’ by western media.
The second positive thing about Pakistan for me is its strong social fabric. Although joint family system is getting diluted mainly because of economic or/and spatial constraints, the way our friends and family members are always there in the time of need is a refreshing experience. Having said this, it does not imply that in other parts of the world social fabric is not strong. Of course it is strong but in the case of Pakistan it compensates for lack of strong social safety nets in public sector. Pakistan is not a public welfare state and the responsibility to take care of each other is mostly fulfilled through our social relations. For us these relations, our friends, relatives and well wishers mean a lot and we feel protected under the umbrella of social relations.
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